Tuesday, 21 May 2013

Come again please

Evening All,

I am emailing you from Calicut where I am now based for the duration of my trip. Calicut also has the name Kozhikode which is approximately a 7 hour train journey from Trivandrum.

In the early hours of Thursday morning I was taken to Trivandrum railway station where the staring and intrigue started and my first India railway experience began. Much like the amusing sketch show Little Britain, instead of portraying Matt Lucas as the only gay in the village, I was certainly the only white person in the village and this remains the case today!

The train journey was enchanting and there was no end of sellers offering food, water, papers including the Times, books and toys! Unfortunately I travelled via cattle class although I suspect that given that the Cow is sacred to Hindus, they would have undoubtedly been more luxuriously accommodated! I was in a non air conditioned carriage which may appear ungrateful but in 33 degree heat and humidity that kicks arse it was a little disappointing!!! However this is an adventure

and I have not travelled to India to enjoy comfort! What was rather amusing was the cost involved in a one way 7 hour train journey covering an expanse of 200 miles - any guesses? - how about £7.00!! Priceless! In return, I was entirely spoilt with the breathtaking views of Kerala and a stunning scenery that has left a lasting impression on me.

After 7 long hours,  I arrived at Calicut train station where the hustle and bustle was an intense as Waterloo congestion both inside and outside of the station. I took my life into my own hands when exiting the station and dodging the traffic - there is every conceivable mode of transport available here in India and therefore more missiles that could strike at anytime!

I was collected by the Principal's driver who drove in air conditioned car that actually felt and looked roadworthy! It was simply amazing! The ability to feel cool for the first time in several days was almost magical! It's the small things in life! Another hazardous journey in the car similar to that of the wacky races was endured - overtaking cars whilst oncoming traffic is driving at us at speed! Adult nappies should be an essential ingredient whilst travelling here in India, simply for encountering the car journeys! Fortunately the Delhi belly has not yet struck but tummy grumblings have been experienced!

Since my arrival at the Principal's house, I have been shown such kindness. My first night was a little overwhelming and in true Linington style the waterworks appeared. Despite the language barrier, the  family displayed such kindness which helped a great deal. There are 6 children here ranging from two 12 year old twins up to 21 years. Five girls and one boy! I get on particularly well with Shafi (the 15 year old boy) as we share a love of cricket. I inadvertently caused a stir amongst the family two days ago when I hit a ball straight over the boundary fence for 6. There are no male ego's here - just smiling reactions by all those who watched and very refreshing it is too!

The mealtimes here at the house are similar to bush tucker trials on I'm celebrity get me out of here only there is no Ant and Dec laughing hysterically as I sample curious food but the family watching me intently and I mean intently! I am given curry for breakfast, lunch and supper interposed with 
mango juice, bananas and coffee! The weight loss programme is not going so well! I was introduced to ladies finger two days ago which I understand to be part of the cucumber family - I dread to think what my reaction was when they announced this ingredient!

The fascination the family have with me and my background is quite amusing and one example is my hair which is frequently touched because it so unusual, all be it bottle blonde and browny hair, but this has not been seen in these parts before! A rather amusing experience occurred yesterday when a young child was introduced to me via the family and whilst I accept that I'm no oil painting, I was rather upset when she took one look at me, burst into tears and ran off in the opposite direction! Beats the incessant staring and at least it was short and sweet!!

The school is not far from the house and I am getting to know staff gradually - the biggest challenge is remembering names as there are no Steve, Dave, Tom's of this world found here!

I find it somewhat amusing that the lavatorial habits are in my view so archaic and yet most Indians have knowledge, sight and ownership of Apple products however this could not be said of the Kindle! This device has not yet reached these parts and the family were rather amused that a large number of books could be stored on it! Funny what tickles people's sense of humour!

The power cuts continue to plague these parts and I am thankful that my iPhone has a torch facility. My phone travels everywhere with me I can tell  you! Such was the humidity two nights ago and with a lack of fans operating, the Principal sort refuge by lying in the garden trying to get cool! I thought for a moment that he may of snuffed it but fortunately not!

Another example of the cultural differences was once again highlighted when I was told about the arranged marriages. An advert is placed in the marriage classifieds section of the local paper requesting that a suitable candidate come forward for consideration. Such approval is met by the bride's parents and if the parties agree then the couple will only see one another twice before the ceremony itself. Agencies are also instructed to locate suitable candidates - pardon my language but sod that for a game of soldiers! 
In any event I'm not sure that I would ever find a suitable husband who would have me after making the catastrophic error of wiping my face with "lav wipes" instead of face wipes, a few evenings ago! I did wonder why it was rather abrasive but being so tired from the heat didn't make my discovery until the following morning! Oh deary me!!!! For the avoidance of doubt, it was clean however it is not a recommended course of action!!

So guess what it's curry time once again! I may have to bring out the marmite jar soon but whilst I am being kindly accommodated so my bush tucker trials continue!!!

I have attached some photos which include henna artwork on my hand which the students who I have not yet corrupted in the classroom yet, completed two days ago. Don't worry Dad - it's not permanent!!! Those who know me well will appreciate that I don't do chav badges! (Tattoos) This is only temporary!

The term starts June 3rd so I will begin my educational journey from then. I will of course update you as to what I think will be my disastrous style of educating these delightful unsuspecting Indians then.

Hope your all well wherever this finds you!

Much love xxxx

1 comment:

  1. Another entertaining and interesting blog Lucy. Keep them coming! Have you settled in and started teaching the children of India your great knowledge yet? What age group will you be teaching? Would love to hear more when you have a moment. Are you living with the principal for the whole of the time or are you moving into your luxury apartment with air con and all the other mod cons India has to offer!!! Looking forward to hearing from you.

    All our love

    Peter and Eileen